Tuesday, October 13, 2015

Bridget Still Loves Me. Awe....

When someone continues to stalk you, for more than 23 years, it must be love.  I love you too, Bridget.  Let's dance! I know you want to.


Sunday, October 11, 2015

I have bad news for you... you're going to die

When my father died a couple of years ago, the reality that we are all dying became impossible for me to ignore. This year, I also lost my brother. I made a decision. I decided that I should see the rest of my life as that gap in time before learning I will die and death.

We all think to ourselves, "If I found out I was terminally ill, I would do.....". I have news for you. You are terminally ill. We are all terminally ill. You just don't know how or when, but the fact remains, you are terminally ill. The sooner you do those things you would do if you knew, the more likely it is that you will do them.

We should all live our lives the way a terminally ill person would live his or her life because we all are terminally ill.

Friday, October 9, 2015

Thinking of My First Wife

Listening to this song made me think of her.  This is how I felt when I learned she was getting remarried, decades ago.  However, despite how I felt then, I think I made the right decision when we broke up.  There is so much of me that I would not have become had I stayed with her.  I feel like I've had a life now.  I've seen the World.  I am a father and I'm free.  I can ask for little more.  However, I do miss her because I really did love her.